I'm on the fence with Stacey. On one hand she is an excellent girlfriend. She's caring, fun, snugly, intelligent compassionate and beautiful. However, her way of handling disagreements is absolutely atrocious. Storming out, days of silence, escalated overreactions, it's all nonsense. I have been thinking about a breakup. Though I care for her I simply can not see this relationship lasting as long as she continues to respond to disagreements in the manner that she does.
So far all of our fights have been over petty nonsense. What is going to happen when we have an actual argument over something worth while.
At the same time maybe I am being to harsh. Maybe I am expecting perfection and I should be more understanding with her short comings. I need to talk to Karen about this. She will have good advice.
I tried apologizing to Jacob. I was met with a predictable silence. Children will be children. Rather then spend more days upset with the lack of contact from people who "didn't choose sides," i've decided to move on.
"What is going to happen when we have an actual argument over something worth while."
ReplyDeleteNailed it. This is harsh, and I realize I don't know her, but it sounds like she has a bit of growing up to do. Sometimes it's really just not worth fighting over. (My boyfriend and I do this a lot. "Is this stupid?" "Yes." "Okay I'll get over it.") Maybe you two need to talk it out? It'll be hard not to get defensive though. Ugh, fighting is so stupid, haha.
If you ever wanna talk, you know my number (I think.) Can't talk talk during work, but I can text!
Sara i'd want to talk to ya just because you are Sara!
ReplyDeleteWell, duh! -hair flip- ;)
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